• Alex Standiford

    The gravity of your hometown will always give you reasons to stay home. Sometimes that gravity is strong, and sometimes it will weaken. When it’s weak, leave. Travel. See things. You can always come back, but the opportunity is always a fleeting thing.

    When we traveled in our camper, we left my kids were 1 and 4. My family and parents weren’t anywhere near needing any help from us, my kids didn’t have school friends yet, I was working remotely for a stable job, and my wife didn’t have a job. We happened to have a camper in our posession and a truck to haul it.

    On paper, that’s about as good of an opportunity as any, and yet it was still a significant, and difficult transition, but I’m glad we did when we did, because the gravity of my hometown ramped up quite a bit more once my kids started making friends.

    By the time they’re old enough to decide to go travel full-time, it’s entirely possible that either of mine or my wife’s parents may need us to be nearby to help them as they get older.

    I guess what I’m getting at is take a look at your life right now, and if the only reason why you are where you’re at is because you’re scared, then re-think it. A few years on the road can completely change your life, and the opportunity to do it is neither universal, nor permanently on the table.

  • Alex Standiford

    Siren vibes at our favorite coffee shop in the OBX today.

  • Work Life Balance Is A Lie.

    Work Life Balance Is A Lie.

    Work-life balance is a trap. It frames work and life as opponents in an unwinnable war. Seek harmony instead. Let work flow with life’s rhythms, not against them.

  • Chicago In Winter

    Chicago In Winter

    A weekend escape to Chicago offered a mix of city charm, vibrant culture, and unforgettable experiences, from exploring iconic streets to enjoying a VIP concert night.

  • Alex Standiford

    Spent yesterday walking all over Uptown, sampling coffee, taking the L all over the place, and eating some great food. I guess we walked 6 miles or so just navigating the city. Chicago is beautiful!

  • Alex Standiford

    Watching Aurora today. We got VIP tickets and oh my god this is amazing! Right next to the bar, I have a server, great acoustics, awesome venue, and my own seat.

    I may never go back.

  • Alex Standiford

    Me and Kate are in Chicago for a weekend. No particular reason, just visiting, enjoying the city life a little, and spending time together. I did not bring my laptop as to not tempt me to “just take a Quick Look” at email. 🙃

  • Alex Standiford

    Flight never ceases to amaze me.

  • Alex Standiford

    My little ROG Ally has proven to be a great travel companion. Both of my planes have had power plugs and gave me ear buds. Really helped pass the time.

  • Alex Standiford

    With the help of a truck driver, we got Leela delivered to our hometown in Ohio, from Texas. For those of you keeping score, that’s 2 campers down. Now we just have to get Charlie back from Vermont this summer, and we’ll be all-set. PS: Leela is SO DIRTY. WOW.

Alex
Alex
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Founder of Novatorius & creator of Siren Affiliates. WordPress engineer and partnership advocate helping businesses grow with flexible incentive programs.

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